Tuesday, October 31, 2006

Costume Party

Halloween is a special day at my office. Not just because we get to dress up, but more importantly it gives everyone an excuse to bring in great food. If I didn't work here, I would easily drop 10 lbs. There is always food around, and at least once a month there is a potluck.

Today, since having a costume party is the excuse for bringing in food, I dressed up. I dressed up as Timothy Treadwell. The man who lived in the Alaskan wilderness for 13 summers with the grizzlies. I pretty much look like this picture, but without the live grizzly behind me. The real Timothy Treadwell did sleep with a teddy bear, and it accompanied him every summer to Alaska. I do have a teddy bear with me. Sam let me borrow his bear that he made at "Build-A-Bear," which also has an awesome roar.

Sam is batman, and Alina is a ballerina. They are adorable!

Saturday's Fun

Saturday was a windy day. Very windy. We had been invited to the Bakers' for their neighborhood's costume parade. The Bakers are trying to build relationships in their neighborhood.

We went. It was a blustery, but great parade. Jean and I know several families in their neighborhood. Some go to our church, some don't. It was a great time of conversation while walking around the 1 mile block. Neighbors that didn't participate in the parade stood out at the curb handing out candy and goodies. It was a good time.

After the parade we gathered in a neighbors' garage for cider and doughnut holes. Then, we went to the Bakers' and carved pumpkins and had dinner. Sam carved a robot pumpkin. Our kids love the Baker kids, and the Baker kids adore our kids. Of course, Jean and I love the Bakers. They are great friends.

We enjoyed ourselves until it was getting to be bed time for Sam and Alina. Kevin helped me load the pumpkins in our truck. Then, we buckled the kids in and headed home. I found a bag on the console of the truck. On the way home I opened it. There was a book by Stephen Ambrose titled Undaunted Courage. I am a huge, huge fan of Meriwether Lewis. After doing a lot of life together, Kevin gave me this book, with a very humbling inscrption thanking me for journeying with him and thanking me for allowing him to be a part of my journey. Good, good stuff.

Tuesday, October 24, 2006

Chris Updates

Thursday October 19
From Chris' friend Jeff: Please keep praying. Last night Chris had a blood clot pass through his heart and he went into cardiac arrest. They were able to get his heart started again. He was then stable throughout the night and he is going into surgery this morning. They are going to put a screen into his veins that should stop any clots from getting through. His biggest risk at present is blood clots. Anyhow, I will try to keep you updated as to the outcome of the surgery. God is good and in control.


Friday October 20 – AM

From Mark, to the office staff: Good morning everyone,
I just spoke with Correna and she said that Chris was doing better today. After the scare on Wednesday night all of his vital signs are now stable. His low blood platelet count has improved, his fever has gone down, and his heart rate is better. The burns on Chris's feet and toes continue to show signs of improvement. Correna remains in good spirits and she asked that I save the Grand Rapids Press sports pages because Chris will never believe that the Tigers actually made it to the World Series. I told her that I'd go one better and actually tape all of the games so that he can watch them for himself when he wakes up.

I've reminded Correna not to hesitate to give us a call if she needs anything. We have a wonderful group of people who know and love Chris and are eager to help out in any way possible. As always, keep Chris and his family in your thoughts and prayers.


Thursday October 20 PM
From Dan, to the office staff: Good afternoon,

I visited Correna late this morning only to find that Chris was in surgery for problems with his lungs. Correna had only found out about the need for this surgery this morning. Apparently Chris had something in his lungs that the doctors had though would break up on its own, but instead it seemed to get worse, and they needed to take action. The surgery involved running a scope through his throat into his lungs to break up and suction out the material. While I was there the surgery ended and the doctors reported that it was a complete success. Over the next few hours, they plan to take Chris off sedation so that he can continue his progress out of the coma.

Correna also received more good news this morning from the doctors. They said that Chris’s kidneys, which were not fully functioning, should recover on their own with no lasting problems.

Having spoken with our health insurance rep just this morning, I was able to give Correna the additional good news that except for a relatively small deductible, Humana would be covering all of Chris’s hospitalization costs.

You never really appreciate the value of good health insurance until something like this happens. Our policy says that after the individual deductible ($1,500, of which Datacomp pays 75%), 90% of hospitalization cost are covered. In Chris’s case, where his bills could be in the hundreds of thousands of dollars, that remaining 10% would still have been a huge financial burden for Chris’s family. Providentially, Chris himself recommended the final piece of our health plan that capped that 10% at a total of $1,000. Chris spent hours working on the details of our current plan trying to get us the best coverage we could afford. He did a terrific job!

Correna and the family are hopeful that Chris is now back on the road to recovery, and continue to appreciate our prayers on their behalf.


Tuesday October 24
From Adeana to the office staff: Hi everyone,

Betsy and I just got back from the hospital. We had a nice visit with Correna and were able to see Chris. We both were encouraged to see how well he looks. He is still on the ventilator, but he is continually taking more breaths on his own and Correna was hoping he would be off the ventilator in the next few days. He is no longer on any antibiotics and no longer has a fever. The doctors are encouraged that his lungs, heart and kidneys appear to be functioning normally. When we were there, his feet were unwrapped and looked better than we expected. New skin is growing and they continue to heal well. He has been on sedation since the middle of last week and was taken off sedation yesterday afternoon around 3pm. He should be starting to go through the process of moving around again. Correna told Chris that if he opened his eyes for her today, she would turn on the Tigers game tonight.

Please keep Chris and his family in your prayers.

Wednesday, October 18, 2006

Rocky Mountain High

Tomorrow I leave for WAH Boot Camp. It will be awesome. It is a time devoted to men getting their hearts back. Though I think I have my heart back, and all of the passion and adventure that makes a heart fully alive, I am sure that I will get something out of it. What I am most hoping for is a way to bring something back. Something that can be given to other guys. Guys in orienteering and guys in our church body to begin with. It has been great in our orienteering group to see leaders emerge. To see passions awaken. To see a hunger for God. To see their shackles broken and to see them realize their redemption.

– Sing with Me! –
He was born in the summer of his 27th year
Comin home to a place hed never been before
He left yesterday behind him, you might say he was born again
You might say he found a key for every door

When he first came to the mountains his life was far away
On the road and hangin by a song
But the strings already broken and he doesnt really care
It keeps changin fast and it dont last for long

But the colorado rocky mountain high
Ive seen it rainin fire in the sky
The shadow from the starlight is softer than a lullabye
Rocky mountain high (high colorado) rocky mountain high (high colorado)

He climbed cathedral mountains, he saw silver clouds below
He saw everything as far as you can see
And they say he got crazy once, and he tried to touch the sun
And he lost a friend but kept his memory

Now he walks in quiet solitude the forests and the streams
Seeking grace in every step he takes
His sight has turned inside himself to try and understand
The serenity of a clear blue mountain lake

And the colorado rocky mountain high
Ive seen it rainin fire in the sky
You can talk to God and listen to the casual reply
Rocky mountain high (high colorado) rocky mountain high (high colorado)

Now his life is full of wonder but his heart still knows some fear
Of a simple thing he cannot comprehend
Why they try to tear the mountains down to bring in a couple more
More people, more scars upon the land

And the colorado rocky mountain high
Ive seen it rainin fire in the sky
I know hed be a poorer man if he never saw an eagle fly
Rocky mountain high

Its a colorado rocky mountain high
Ive seen it rainin fire in the sky
Friends around the campfire and everybodys high
Rocky mountain high (high colorado) rocky mountain high (high colorado)
Rocky mountain high (high colorado) rocky mountain high do de do

words by john denver, music by john denver and mike taylor

Chris Update

Good morning everyone,

Chris had a lot of visitors this past weekend and the doctors declared Monday a no visitor day. He was very restless all of Sunday night and they wanted him to get some rest. Chris was moved down to the 4th floor to what is called Progressive Care. Correna likes this floor better because the nurse to patient ratio is much better and Chris is getting a lot more personal attention. Chris had a minor set-back earlier with a blood clot forming in his leg and moving to his chest. The doctors put him on a blood thinner and they're waiting to see if this will solve the problem. This morning Chris is spiking a slight fever and Correna is doing her best to keep him cool and help break the fever. Before the fever hit this morning Correna said that Chris has had his eyes open quite a bit lately and he is reacting more to pain, especially when they change the dressing on his feet and suction out his breathing tube. This is good news.

Please continue to keep Correna and Chris and his whole family in your thoughts and prayers.

Wednesday, October 11, 2006

Note to Self

(be warned, this is a bit gross)

Note to Self – Remember to eat dinner prior to orienteering start time on Tuesdays...

I usually have dinner when I get home from orienteering. I usually get home about 10:30 after enjoying some good conversation, which comes after a good small group, which comes after a good worship time, which comes after interacting with guys as they navigate the woods for 90 minutes, which comes after 2 1/2 hours of placing control points in the woods.

Last night I rolled in about 11. The conversations and connections are getting deeper and deeper which is incredibly cool. I figured it was a bit late for dinner to settle well. I thought I could get through the night on the half glass of cream soda, elf fudge cookies, and handful after handful of "Blazin' Buffalo" flavored Doritos, "Pepper Jack" flavored Doritos, and "Nacho Cheese" flavored Doritos. This morning I woke up with a sour stomach, and I lost a few of the Doritos. Oh, believe me, I am still going to eat Doritos. I am just going to make sure there are no rumblies in my tumblies before turning in.

Tuesday, October 10, 2006

Monday PM Chris Update

Chris's color is improving and he has started moving his feet, which is good news. He continues to react to the voices and touches of Correna and the kids with eye flutters and small muscle movements. Tomorrow the doctors are planning on inserting a trach tube so that they can remove the air tube from his mouth. Their goal is to try and hear if Chris is making any sounds. Chris has been breathing on his own for small periods of time and if that continues to improve then the doctors can just "cap" the trach opening. Correna continues to be in good spirits and is thankful for all of our thoughts and prayers.

Monday, October 09, 2006

Board Games

Trivial Pursuit, as well as Scruples, Balderdash, Pictionary, and Yatzee, were invented in Canada. Does cold weather breed multimillion selling board games? Looks like it, eh?

Did You Know?

James Lewis Kraft, cheese genius and founding father behind the Canadian staple Kraft dinner, was born in Stevensville, Ontario?

Happy Thanksgiving!!!!!!

Saturday, October 07, 2006

No Lemons, Just Sweet Potatoes

Yesterday during break I went to the secretary of state to get the a new title and new plates for the green machine. Then, I took it to Tuffy for a new muffler and battery. D & J told me that it probably needed a new battery, and definitely needed a muffler. The battery was 4 years old and the life on a battery is usually 3-5 years, so no problem. They also knew it only got a few radio stations as there was no antenna.

Tuffy is a place I have grown to trust as the only place to go for auto service. See, we have this pathfinder. The dealer couldn't figure out the rattle in the front in when we turned corners. Another mechanic couldn't either and said that everything in the front end was fine. One Saturday I took the pathfinder to Tuffy for a new exhaust system because a big chunk of sheet metal was hanging down off of the muffler. They said that it really didn't need a new muffler. It was really still in great shape. The outer sheet metal could just be pulled off. They always due a 21 point or so inspection. They did find that it needed a new ball joint in the front end. I didn't even tell them about the rattle I thought no one would ever solve. And, they found what the Nissan dealer and another mechanic never could. So, they rock.

So, I dropped the Honda off. They called me back when the battery and exhaust system were finished and they didn't report any other needed repairs. SWEET!

We picked it up, then all went to Culver's for dinner. From their I went to Meijer and got an antenna and one of my tasks for Saturday is to put it in.

On Jean's blog, she wrote a post that made it sound like we were having a baby. It was pretty funny. She said that she couldn't wait to find out if it was a boy or a girl. J told Jean that it is definitely a boy. I was sort of hoping it was a girl then I could call it Rhonda the Honda. I don't know any boys' names that ryhme with Honda. I think I am just going to call it the Sweet Potato because IT ROCKS!

Friday Afternoon's Chris Update

Chris continues to make small improvements. The movement in his eyes and major muscle groups continues to increase. He seems to be improving from the head down and appears at times to be experiencing pain, which is actually a good sign. His eyes have appeared to be fluttering in attempt to open them when his little girls talk to him (The girls smile so big when he does it, so wonderful to see the hope in their eyes). He is still in a coma, but slowly making positive improvements. He is definitely a fighter... must be from all the hockey games he has watched over the years.

Friday, October 06, 2006

The Dollar Store

You can get lots of cool things at the dollar store. Gum. Floss. Glass cleaner. Cotton swabs. Shampoo. Ramen Noodles.

We bought something way better that for a dollar! A car. Not a Hotwheels car either. A grown up car. The car is worth every penny, and then some! Friends of ours were gracious enough to sell us their car for one measley dollar. Jean was gone last night when D & J brought it over. It was J's car for a long long time. It was so sweet to see her tear up because of the sentiments and memories attached to the car. After D & J left last night the kids and I piled in and drove it up and down the driveway. It is solid and runs great. The kids love it. I love it. Jean loves it. J taught Jean to drive a stick in this car. Even though Jean has only tried driving a stick once since then, the thing Jean loves the most is the 30-40 minutes it saves not having to drive me to work in the morning and come back home, and then the 30-40 minutes it saves in the afternoon to pick me up after work.

We are humbled that someone would do this for us. Thanks for your generosity D & J!!! It was very, very kind of you. We appreciate it SO much.

A Chris Update

Chris has been taken off the ventilator for short periods of time (about 30 minutes) and he's been doing well breathing on his own. They hook him back up after a while because they don't want to tire him. Also, Chris has been moving his eyes a little bit, often in response to someone talking to him. He's not out of the coma, but these are all positive signs.

Thursday, October 05, 2006

Re: A Cool Picture of My Ankle

Dale, one of the guys in our orienteering group, e-mailed me and said, "Ed, It is a little hard to feel sorry for you when we see the markers in the background that show that you obviously colored your ankle to elicit sympathy… Dale"

HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!



That made me laugh!

A Cool Picture of My Ankle

I wanted to share a photo of my ankle and the beautiful hues of black, blue, and purple! Mitch, Guy, Josh, and Johnny witnessed me roll my ankle as I ran frantically back to the start/finish as I was a few minutes late to get everyone started. The doctor said is just a severe sprain and I should be good to go in about 2-7 days. I am really glad it wasn't broken as I need to walk a stream next Tuesday night!

Wednesday, October 04, 2006

the mystery caller

i tried calling sam twice on jean's cell phone before i finally talked with him to see how is day at school was.
every time i started calling him, my cell phone would ring.
the first time i missed who ever was calling me
so, called the "missed number" and it rang to the main office number at my work.
denee, our receptionist, said she didn't call me.
i though it was hubbard playing a joke.
i called sam again, and at the same time my cell phone rang again.
hubbard was on the phone.
with someone else. sometime he and i play cell phone practical jokes on each other.
i kept my work phone off the hook while i answered my cell.
i said hello, hello into my cell.
i hung up my work phone, and i heard myself hang up in my cell.
so, i was calling myself...

This Morning's Misadventure

This morning I set out on the trail to collect the orienteering markers at 6:30 this morning. For those who may who don't know what being out in the woods at 6:30 on an October morning, let me tell you what it was like.

It was dark! Very dark. And after all of the rain we had last night, it was also very foggy. I had my headlamp on, but it didn't cut the fog well. The stars where bright in the sky, which just meant the sky was clear, not that they were giving additional lighting.

I found my way down the trail of the southern loop at Seidman Park to the bridge. I didn't take my compass or GPS out. I figured I knew the way. It was amazing how easy it was to lose your direction in the fog and dark. I found this out while trying to find the first three markers – A, B, and C on the map. To retrieve A, I needed to go SW from the bridge. Somehow, in the dark and fog, I always found myself back near the stream. Check point B was pretty much straight north of the bridge. Somehow I was too far east by 100' or so. To find Check Point C you needed to follow a "reentrant," then at the end of it head NNW. Somehow, I was too far south. I am sure there is a spiritual application about finding your way in the dark and fog without using a compass.

By the time I got to D, there was some daylight breaking way. I gathered it, as well as E and G. At H there were dark ominous clouds. By this time it was 7:30. Only an hour ago there was clear skies. I grabbed H, and headed north. I went all the way to J. Thunder. Lightening. Over and over. I dropped my gear and put it in a pile, then moved far away from it. I went to the base of the hill under the trees. I waited about 30 minutes and the first line of storms finally passed. I don't think that I had ever been out in such a long hard rain. You know how you are supposed to count "one one-thousand, two one-thousand" between seeing lightning and hearing thunder to determine how many miles away the storm is from you? Well, I didn't quite get to "one."

Then, it was light again to the southwest. "SWEET!" I thought. "I can grab CP I, then F and I can head back home." Well, "I" is under a big norway maple in the middle of the meadow. I grabbed it, then more thunder. I ran for safety. "Not smart, Ed. Not Smart!" I told myself outloud. I couldn't have made it to the far southern part where the woods picked up again. So, I ran west. To an area with an adequate number of trees. I dumped my gear, then hid in the trees. You know how they say, "If the hair on your arms stands on end, you are about to get struck"? Well, the hair on my arms stood on end. I was sure that it was just because I was super cold from the rain on my flesh that was warm from traversing. So, I moved to another set of trees that had more trees.

I waited there and waited there. My first instincts during both lines of thunderstorms was to run for it. Though, I knew better not to. If you run across an open area, especially with communication devices and some other metal objects, you have dramatically increased your chances of being a human lightning rod. Yet, I wanted to. I wanted to hurry and run so I could get back. Part of it I believe was not to feel "alone." Aloneness is a huge part of my story. I wanted to keep moving so I wouldn't feel alone. I wanted to depend on me to get back across the meadow. But, I knew better. Weird as it may sound, God met me there. He replaced hurry with patience. More importantly he replaced aloneness with His presence. I was perfectly fine and secure to wait 90 minutes, and did, under trees waiting for a safe time to go across the meadow. It was cool experiencing God there. Really cool!

A Chris Update

Some of you may have seen in the news or read in the newspaper about the teen who was killed while helping his youth pastor with some painting on the youth pastor's home. The youth pastor is actually the controller (head accounting person) for our company. He's a super guy.

This is the update on his condition as of late this morning: Good morning everyone,

We've received some positive news from Correna this morning. Chris's EEG came back showing "normal" brain wave activity which is a positive sign. The doctors say that this is a positive and "what they expected" but they still need Chris to come out of the coma. Chris also went in for an MRI this morning at 4 am. The MRI will give the doctors a 3-D picture of Chris's brain and help them diagnose the full extent of any brain injury. Correna also said that Chris showed some signs of movement this morning. He adjusted his shoulders a little bit "as if to get himself more comfortable in the pillow". And they also said that he "didn't like" getting the breathing tube reinserted this morning.

We're certainly thankful for the positive steps that have been made and we are looking forward to hearing more good news in the future. Please keep Chris and his family in your prayers.

Tuesday, October 03, 2006

Dirty and Wet and Loving It

Saturday after naps we were all going to go to Donald Lamoreaux County Park to mark places where orienteering markers will be hung for orienteering group. Jean decided not to join us as she really needed some alone time.

I called her on our way home from the park and said it was probably best that she didn't join us. We found every mud puddle we could and jumped IN them. We also waded 50 yards or so up a stream. The water was up passed the mid part of Alina's thigh.

When we got home precious Alina proclaimed to Jean, "I SOAKED!" She loved every second of the adventure. As did Sam. Sam loving that sort of thing pretty much goes without saying. To see Alina loving adventure was so, so cool!